What Your Rearview Mirror Doesn’t Show

I decided not to stop my car.

“Let me go first,” I thought.

That heavy, loaded truck driver would probably scold me—

I realized that only after the moment passed.

We were returning from a hill-station trip with family and friends, driving down toward the city. It was one of those hairpin bends.

I’ve driven hillside many times. I know the rule. I’ve practiced it too—stop and give way to vehicles climbing up.

But that day… that moment… I was laughing at something my friend said. Radio playing. Mind already at the bottom of the hill, planning dinner.

I thought, “I can cross before the truck reaches.”

But the truck came around the bend quicker than I calculated.

I heard the brakes first:

“Issshhh… irrrrrkkk…”

He had slowed for me. So I could pass.

Then I saw him—the driver gripping the wheel, his entire body pressed forward, one side punching the clutch and brake, the other working the gear stick. The truck jolted like something alive and wounded, fighting to stay on the mountain.

His face—I still see it. Not angry. Just focused. Every muscle working.

And then I was past. Safe.

I think about that sometimes now.

How easily I turned the wheel.

How everything in my car responded exactly as I asked.

How his vehicle had to be convinced.

How I was warm and laughing and planning dinner.

How he was alone with that wheel and that load and that mountain.

Life isn’t a smooth drive for everyone.

📌 P.S: Before you assume someone is slow, struggling, or not capable—pause. What vehicle are they driving? What load are they carrying? And what were you thinking about when you didn’t notice?

Pause. Check your mirror before you take over on your next bend.

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