Learn to Balance

There’s a moment all of us forget we learned.
Mine came on a 50-paise bicycle.

I was in 4th grade.
Sunday morning.
Woke up early
No exam. No festival.
Just a strong urge:
“I need to ride today.”

I was first at the rental shop.
Three cycles.
The smallest one — the “practice bike.”
But the owner gave the new ones to the confident boys first.
The ones who wouldn’t break things.

The amateurs like me had to wait.

I held my 50 paise like a passport.

Finally, he handed it to me —
red colour, U-shaped handle, pedals almost out of reach.

I pushed off.
One foot on the ground.
One foot searching blindly.
Hopping. Wobbling.
Like a newborn kangaroo trying to move.

And then…
something clicked.

For 30 seconds, I forgot the ground existed.
Both feet on the pedals.
The cycle stayed upright.
The breeze touched my forehead.

No support.
Just me.
Just balance.
Just magic.

And in that moment I learned a truth I didn’t yet understand:

Imbalance is not failure.
It’s a signal to balance.

The next day, I took my father’s big Hercules.
Cross-pedaling. Hands on the handlebar.

Then I saw him —
a boy balancing effortlessly,
hands hovering in the air
No fear.
Complete mastery.

And just like that…

I compared.
I wanted to prove something —
to him, to the shop owner, to myself.

So, I tried.
Pedals faster.
One hand off.

And then—
the fall.

The handle twisted.
The cycle spat me into the rough sand.
The pain was sharp and sudden.

That scar on my knee became my identification mark.

The wound healed in three weeks.
But the real lesson took years:

Every fall in my life since —
career, relationships, ambition —
is the same fall.
the same overconfidence.
But always… ready to stand again
for my own ride

We all forget this.

We see someone riding with hands in the air…
succeeding in business, switching careers, thriving in new worlds
and we think:

“They got it naturally. I never will.”

But they also learned on a small bicycle.
They also fell into sand.
They also had a moment when balance felt impossible…
right before it became natural.

In a world moving this fast, remember:

You don’t learn by watching someone ride without hands.
You learn by falling, healing, and trying again.

If you’re falling right now —
in learning, in career, in confidence —

You’re not behind.
You’re becoming ready.

The rough sand hurts.
But it’s also how balance is born.

Ready for your next ride?

Share your bicycle moment —
the one that hurt before it taught you.

Someone who got in to rough sand may need to hear it.

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